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Unless you have been living in a cave somewhere, you've probably heard the canard acting as the title of this post.   It's been a recurring meme for 3 years now, and used by enemies, past and present to smear me and assassinate my character.  It gets new life whenever any new drama resurrects it such as the ridiculous "shoq abused vdaze narrative now entering it's third month. Smears work the same way right wing propaganda does. You repeat the lie again and again and again until enough people think "gosh, there must be something to it or all these people wouldn't be saying it, right?."  It's sometimes called "Fox News."  This may all seem pretty juvenile to you, and it is, but it usually does to someone not living through it. These people are now running "unfollower contests."  The followers lost already  mean little to me. But the damages to my name, reputation and professional interests are another matter.

The lack of any real evidence will help me in future actions taken against this vicious character assassination.  So to prove they have never had any, and never did….I am now offering an open invitation to… 

Bring it! Bring your hard evidence against @shoq 

Total (eligible) submissions since 9/30/2021:  0     
 

 


To all of you #shoqboilers out there, here's your moment to shine.  Bring us your evidence of my "bullying" and "abusing women."  Let everyone see the hard evidence of your claims which you push relentlessly, month after month, year after year.  I will let everyone see just what you have. You don't even have to leave an email. Just be sure what you have is at least credible. Only the infamous @vdaze voice message is exempt, as that 8 month old voice mail message has been discussed ad nauseum and was merely a device to triggrer this latest smear. 

As for anything else, please post below any evidence you have below AS A COMMENT on this paqe. This might include:

  • A tweet, blog post, website link that has a real person standing behind it, and not some anonymous smear-merchant with an ax to grind using phony images or unacccountable websites.
  • An accounting or anecdote with a real  witness who would sign an affadavit as to its truthfulness, or testify to it in court.
  • An email (with headers) or instant message that went through Google or some other service where the text can be subpoenaed. 
  • A voice message or other recording
  • If your evidence is a tweet, webpage, or other webobject, you must include a URL or it goes to the garbage-out page.
  • Merely posting Tweets of someone making a claim is not evidence of anything, but if you insist on looking silly, and exposing yourself (and them) to hard questions from commenters, you can post those too.
  • If you provide some lame conversation where a political difference of opinion is what you call "bullying," or my sarcastically dispatching some right wing loon or contrarian or argumentative lefty puritopian, I will let that stand, just to show how ridiculous people can be. Such engagements are not "bullying." That's called "Twitter."

I will allow anything that meets the above criteria. I have enabled posting of media too.

You don't have to leave a real name or email if you don't wish, but if you do, you will seem more credible.  

A few rules:

  • If you try to provide anecdotal or circumtantial evidence with nothing to back it up, I will delete it from this page, but move it to a garbage-out page where they can still be seen, but they won't clutter up the stream of evidence. 
  • What you post must be about yourself, or someone real who has some kind of track record on Twitter or Facebook.  Someone that has had an account for at least 6 months, for example. 
  • You, the abused person, or their appointed legal proxy or representative should be willing to stand behind the claim and discuss it below, answering questions posed by others.  You/they should also be prepared to defend it were it ever brought up in court.
  • If it's just unsupportable bullshit with no real proof it was ever posted or happened, it has no business being mentioned as evidence or a "fact" and will be moved to the garbage-out page.
  • Mere rants will not be allowed at all. If you just want to spew opinions about me, start a blog. This is for what people claim is hard evidence of Shoq's "abusing or bullying of anyone, but particularly women,"  
  • If you provide patently false information, you may expose yourself to charges of defamation or libel.

So why am I doing this?

Because I am disgusted by this daily kangaroo court justice that so many people enable because they 1) don't know or have any the facts, 2) don't want to be bullied for asking questions of the smear mongers, or 3) are simply gullible, naive, or stupid.

There is no evidence of this abuse narrative and there never was. To these #shoqboilers, I was born in Kenya, and that's the end of their story.  I argue politics, and I organize social media projects. And I do both vociferously and enthusiastically. Both have made me a lot of enemies on the Right and the Left. They rarely want to take me down with ideas or debate, so they try to intimidate people into unfollowing me, or attacking me. It's been this way for years.  

I don't bully anyone, nor do IU "abuse women."  I once raised my voice and used an inappropriate word in anger at an cybe-girlfriend who was encouraged to publish a recording of it 8 months after the fact, just to embarass me. I apologized for it here on this blog in several ways. 

So if you want to make some new charge, bring your evidence and back up your story.  But more importantly, if  you encounter anyone making such charges, ask them to post it here where everyone can share it. If they haven't done that yet, or don't want to do that for any reason, 1) ask yourself why, and then, 2) dismiss it for what it is, is: bullshit.

To see real time responses or engage me about this drama, please follow @ShoqRetorts

I especially welcome these participants

@gottalaff, @tymlee, @nicolesandler, @angryblacklady, @vdaze, @jennyjinx, @ttlanes, @rebeccayorkart, @nadiaartist, @semishark, @brandibax, @shoqpaholic_918,@james_x_,  @themanknownasx, @iboudreau, @theXclass, @sickjew, @jc_christian,  @tosFM, @dudeImanegg, @cody_k, @deniseromano, @watergatesummer

Bonus

If you have instant mesages, emails, or Direct Messages with any of the above people to disparage, smear or even urge you to unfollow me, use the contact button in the menu above. I will pay you for it. 

The Evidence Begins Below 

See garbage-out page for crap that didn't qualify as serious evidence.  (01) posts moved there.


 

 

 

 

  • http://twitter.com/Ilikewoods Norma Duffy

    I think a deadline is necessary as well. Then we can point to the fact that… a place and time was given — where anyone could look up the information collected and make a nuianced decision.

    Let me just say also, that I feel the pettyniess at you Shoq, has gone on long enough. Jeez,we are all adults here. I can honestly say that if a woman with a mouth on the internet cant take some razzing, herself (which you Apoligised for), she is just not ready to sit at the big person table anyway.

    As a woman with a mouth myself, I have made mistakes and apoligised for them. time for VDaze to grow up. Nobody is a saint here…. nobody!

    I also want all of Vdazes Twitter friends to know I am still supporting you all because…you have made very good sense on other topics we fully agree on… except these needless shinanagans.

    Just remind yourself that I have a vested interest as a Internet friend of yours to ask the Tough questions…. Need we dive farther into the toilet bowl of life over verbal slights on the internet? ……if your friend or you are not bleeding, vomiting, or on fire, chill out and stop crying.

    The idea that one person from the internet, could be all things to another person, satisfy every need, is sentimental, mawkish, and absolutely wrong.

    There is a thousand other things that count more in life then a twitter argument. We have a whole slew of crazy wanting to turn this country into a banana republic this election. I think thats a bigger problem we can all agree needs fighting.

  • Tess

    I think you should have a deadline as we might be waiting for a while.

  • http://twitter.com/JD_Meadows Meadows

    Define “Pouring”…

  • http://twitter.com/JD_Meadows Meadows

    Swing and a miss.

  • http://twitter.com/Cody_K/ Cody

    Reauthorize all my comments you’ve deleted from your blog posts here in the past, since that obviously stands as one part of my body of evidence. In particular, the lengthy ones with link pointing to a response from me, on Karoli’s Drums and Whistles.
    Then authorize for the first time… the most recent ones you’ve conveniently and cowardly ignored as if they never happened.

    Once that’s done, we’ll get down to your specific misogynistic behavior with regards to speculative and sexist accusations about my identity, gender, and residence… in your efforts to discredit me after your debate logic hit a brick wall.

    Or, be your typically predictable self, stand as your own judge and jury, label this as “bullshit” and sweep it to the page you conveniently set up to further manipulate the truth in hopes that many will never visit there… so you can claim this comment section as “total crickets”. Whether you choose to be fully transparent in this simple request will stand for the record on the matter of the forthright honesty you continually tout… or it won’t.